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Showing posts with label hard times. Show all posts
Showing posts with label hard times. Show all posts

Sunday, February 3, 2013

Jonah....another who fled the presence of the Lord

It never ceases to amaze me how God dovetails scripture verses, songs and hymns, our experiences, our prayers in our lives with other things that further teach, encourage, convict or affirm us. Or all of the above! 

This happened to me this morning at church. Our preacher started today taking us through the book of Jonah. It was an excellent sermon in which many things I never realized or thought of  were illustrated..

In a previous blog of mine (January 31, 2013, "Be Real.....come into my kitchen") I mentioned some of the same things he did this morning though I was not talking about Jonah nor was our preacher talking about being real or my kitchen!

We both gave examples of biblical characters who fled from the presence of the Lord  because of their sin. This of course is folly. And he gave the example, as I did, of a child who pulls a blanket over his head believing he cannot be seen simply because he cannot see others. God always sees us even if we  hide----no matter in what way we hide. We both touched on  keeping our eyes on Christ. The similarities amazed me and made me think more deeply on the subject.

I'd like to share what he continued to preach. Please take this as me sharing what our preacher taught this morning from God's Word, not me preaching to you. Think of me as a friend sharing an amazing sermon and what I learned from it. Thank you.

Our preacher told us that God sent a storm that sorely rocked the ship that Jonah was on as he fled the presence of God. The mariners in the ship were very afraid. Jonah was fast asleep, one assumes, below deck. The crew prayed to "...their gods..." and began to throw things overboard to lighten their load hoping that would help. Neither helped.  The men, after the captain spoke to Jonah and also asked him to pray to his God, the one true God, decided that they would cast lots (a common practice, like drawing straws, at the time) to try to find out what was the reason for the storm which threatened their very lives. Because the lot fell to Jonah and because of his confession, the crew knew it was because of  Jonah's fleeing God's presence that God sent the storm. They became even more afraid.  At Jonah's suggestion, and after even the crew started praying to God and still fighting the storm to get to land (not wanting to have Jonah's blood on their hands), Jonah was tossed overboard at which moment the sea was totally calmed. The crew became even more frightened and made a sacrifice unto the Lord and made vows.(Jonah 1:6-16)

Meanwhile, God sent a "great fish" to swallow up Jonah and eventually deposit him on dry land near  where God told him to go in the first place. Jonah was in the belly of the "fish" three days and three nights. He describes what this was like and how he eventually came to the end of his rope as we might say today, and then remembered God.

Storms of life, trials, our preacher said, are not always because of sin and we should not always jump to that conclusion when we find ourselves or  someone else in a trial. But they are often to teach and exercise us to make us more like Christ (and of course even if they are sent for sin they teach and exercise us.) But sometimes they are because of our sin and they affect not only us, but others. Just as the storm God sent to affect Jonah put the lives of the ship's crew in danger. Our sin can do this also. And others' sins can put us in danger. If you want to know more, read more in Jonah. I can't wait to hear next Lord's Day's message from chapters 3 and 4!

These are admittedly hard times. Times may get harder or easier. We do not know. We can neither comprehend nor know ahead of time God's providential workings or the reasons why He does what He does. He does what pleases Him for His eternal purposes and glorification and our eternal good.  God will be with us in the storms of life---in the little things and the really big things. Often we, like Jonah, must reach the ends of our ropes before we cry out to the Lord.

I used to think that if I didn't stay smiling and uncomplaining through a trial but gave up and called on God begging for help, I had failed. I used to think that I had failed the "test" and so God would have to bring another trial upon me, over and over until I "passsed" it. Yet, oddly I experienced that every time I got to the end of that rope, broke down and gave up, God would take over and things would fall into place and then be over or at least better. In deeper trials things do not just fall into place and end, but may last a lifetime. But even then, we know He is with us and understands. He comforts, teaches, mourns with us, strengthens us and sees us through all our trials. What great comfort that brings.

So, when storms rage seek refuge in the Lord. Do not flee from His presence. Do not rebel against Him. Only in His presence can we experience the peace and yes, even joy, of the Lord and His strength in us to weather the storms of life.

And as our preacher ended our worship with this passage, so do I end this blog with the same:

"...thanks be to God, which gives us the victory through our Lord Jesus Christ.  Therefore, my beloved brethren, be steadfast,  unmovable, always abounding in the work of the Lord for as much as you know that your labor is not in vain in the Lord."  1 Corinthians 15: 57 and 58.

Thursday, January 31, 2013

Town Day
.....maybe?

The temperatures here have been getting warmer and whereas that is very nice in some ways, it prevents me from going to town, at least for now.
The snow has melted and frozen overnight which has left us with large patches of solid ice in our driveway which totally surrounds my car and my path to it. I partially lost the use of  my left foot in 1986 due to scar tissue build-up from back surgery in 1973. I, also have a gait problem stemming from a hereditary inner ear condition. Walking for me is difficult, often painful and  always unsteady. This makes walking in the wintertime quite difficult for me.
We really need to replenish groceries, but I may not be able to go to town or shop locally as planned.
We have more than enough to get us through the weekend so I am not concerned. I had planned a marathon trip to town with a smaller excursion to our local grocery store on Friday. There are many things we normally buy on sale at great prices this week.
I could vacuum--the house needs it, but the vac is broken, I could bake some things we need in our new oven but I have to wait to get the sticky tape residue off and for a repair man to fix the oven door. I could post the pictures of the last two meals I made but this morning my cell phone camera stopped working.
I still have many things that could occupy me. I will choose a few of those and get them finished.

I still have not spent a dime on our food for this week---that is out of this week's money for food. It's still at $3.71 (50 cents a serving for four nights) for a piece of meat I used on Monday to make soup. I hope  I can  soon figure out what's wrong with my cell camera so I can post the pictures of the foods I have made this week with leftovers from last week, some frozen meals from two weeks ago and the meal leftover thread I started on Monday with the soup.

Later, I hope........

Today

I got my wall oven today.
It doesn't fit in the cabinet.
I can't get the tape residue off the stainless steel.
The door won't open all the way.
The door slams shut once opened and let go of.
Because the oven won't fit in the cabinet it sticks out taking up space in front of the refrigerator so that it can only be loaded and unloaded from the sides.
We have to open up the back of the cabinet so it will fit.
We have to put trim around the areas above and around the oven to hide areas that will be exposed
because of changing everything.
We have to add depth to the existing cabinet.
The electrical for the unit needs to be changed so it doesn't show.
And.....
Our dish washer latch broke.
Our vacuum cleaner stopped working a couple days ago.
The brand new ceiling texture in our bedroom and the upstairs foyer is coming down.
And there are other even smaller things that have caused us to be discouraged this week

Sigh.

I have a choice here.
I can complain.
I confess, I did complain earlier today. It made me feel worse, not better.
I can  question God, asking  why, when will things be better, why do these things never happen to others (ha!), what did I do to deserve........oh, don't go there. We know we deserve nothing and that by God's mercy, if  you are a believer,  you will not get what you truly deserve. Praise our merciful God!

I can cast blame---on the oven, on the person from whom we bought the oven, the manufacturer, the USPS, the weather, my husband, or the maker of the cabinet the oven will not fit into. But it will change nothing--- only my heart---making it bitter..

But, by God's grace I did not become bitter, mean-spirited or sarcastic about it. Okay----but I did not stay bitter, mean-spirited or sarcastic for long.

This evening the Lord brings to mind  Proverbs 17:22  "A cheerful heart does good like a medicine. But a broken spirit dries up the bones."

It is easy to have a cheerful heart when things are going well. But it takes the grace of God to be cheerful when things go badly----even when it is a lot of very small things.

My husband has always said  that if he bought a turkey farm, Thanksgiving would be cancelled. I don't really want to test this theory for fear it will become true!  We have laughed with friends and family at the seemingly endless stories of  all the small catastrophes that have attended our family. And who knows, maybe someday I will write a book about our experiences, as many have encouraged me to do. Our calamities certainly could fill a book! But for now, though they fill our life, we must guard our hearts. We must learn from our trials, be exercised by them, cling to God in even the smallest of them, learning what He has for us in them. He may be teaching us patience, courage, mercy---many things. We may never find out the whys. But these two things we always know----everything is for our eternal good (and perhaps for others) and God's glory. What a comfort this can be. And in the light of eternity and bringing glory to God things like ill-fitted ovens, broken dishwashers and vacuums these trials are very small indeed.

I expect and hope that tomorrow is a better day. But if it is not---we will pray, laugh and hopefully learn.
Goodnight.
Kathi~

Tuesday, January 29, 2013

Quick Tip
..........saving suggestion from our firstborn


As we were talking about saving strategies, our oldest daughter mentioned doing
comparison shopping and ad-matching.

Though I have heard of this, I have never done it.
I always look through other store ads to see where, within reason, I can get the best buys.
It makes little sense to me to use up $5 of fuel to save a dollar.
By shopping in ad-matching stores
that I already regularly go to I can save myself
time, money and the need for more fuel.

A lot of things seem small, and they are.
But many small ideas for saving
add up.

Times are getting harder and every little bit helps.
Don't despise the small things.
Make them a habit.
Do the best you with what you've got!

Kathi~